65, single, seeking a roommate: More seniors are being priced out of living alone

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National 65, single, seeking a roommate: More seniors are being priced out of living alone Updated April 4, 2026 12:01 AM ET Originally published April 4, 2026 12:01 AM ET Heard on All Things Considered Jennifer Ludden 65, single, seeking a roommate: More seniors are being priced out of living alone Listen · 3:51 3:51 Transcript Toggle more options Download Embed Embed < iframe src="https://www.npr.org/player/embed/nx-s1-5760948/nx-s1-9716335" width="100%" height="290" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" title="NPR embedded audio player"> Transcript Nora Carol Photography/Getty Images David West raised four kids in Los Angeles working as a Hollywood cinematographer — no mean feat in such a pricey city. I still haven't figured it out." West looked into a housing subsidy, but his income is just over the limit, so he's grateful for the cost savings of a house share. David West hide caption toggle caption David West Roommates are skewing older The high cost of housing means more people are being priced out of not only owning a home but also renting alone. In 2023, more than a third of households headed by adults 65 and over struggled to pay housing costs, according to the Joint Center for Housing Studies at Harvard University, and the share is even bigger for women living alone . "Older adults are more likely to be housing-cost burdened than working-age adults, and that gets more severe with age," said Jennifer Molinsky, who researches aging and housing at the center. "It's climbed up the income scale.

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65, single, seeking a roommate: More seniors are being priced out of living alone
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David West raised four kids in Los Angeles working as a Hollywood cinematographer — no mean feat in such a pricey city. But a few years ago, his life took a hard turn.
"Everything went south. Divorce. My brother died," he said. "My dog died." On top of that, a string of clients who'd hired him for decades also passed away.
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Before long, he'd burned through cash and damaged his credit. He moved to Fresno, Calif., and now, at 72, West is in a situation he never imagined at this stage of life but one that more and more older people are facing: renting a room in the home of a complete stranger.
"I tried to move, like, an apartment's worth of stuff into a room," he said with a laugh at how impossible it seemed. "You know, how do you do that? I still haven't figured it out."
West looked into a housing subsidy, but his income is just over the limit, so he's grateful for the cost savings of a house share. His roommate, also an older man, covers Wi-Fi, utilities and cable. West volunteers his photography skills at the church where the man is involved and shares his Costco membership.
"It's that give-and-take thing," he said. "It's trying to help each other out as much as possible."
David West while working on a documentary in Brazil.
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Roommates are skewing older
The high cost of housing means more people are being priced out of not only owning a home but also renting alone. The share of adults 65 and over looking to rent with a roommate has tripled in the past decade, according to the listings site
SpareRoom
.
"They're not the biggest group of roommates, but they're by far the fastest growing," said the site's communications director, Matt Hutchinson.
SpareRoom finds that roommates in general are skewing older. Young people are living with their parents longer, unable to afford moving out or simply trying to save up. Meanwhile, more people in their 50s, 60s and older are unable to make it on their own.
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"Maybe 10 years ago they'd have looked at a one-bed or a studio and thought, 'Well, I'll rent that,'" Hutchinson said. Now "they're looking at prices and going, 'There's no way I could afford that.'"
Baby boomers have been aging as
housing costs
across the U.S.
have spiked
. In 2023,
more than a third
of households headed by adults 65 and over struggled to pay housing costs, according to the Joint Center for Housing Studies at Harvard University, and the share is even bigger for
women living alone
.
"Older adults are more likely to be housing-cost burdened than working-age adults, and that gets more severe with age," said Jennifer Molinsky, who researches aging and housing at the center. "It's climbed up the income scale. So more and more, you know, middle-income people are struggling with housing costs than ever before."
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Older adults are also more likely to face major life events that can lead to financial strain. Caezilia Loibl, chair of the Consumer Sciences Program at Ohio State University, has researched the
financial toll of chronic disease
and the loss of a spouse at an older age.
"The shock is enormous," she said, "and we see it very clearly in our data how the debt burden goes up and financial vulnerability goes up." People were more likely to fall behind in debt payments, for example, see their credit score drop, file for bankruptcy and face foreclosure.
The upside of learning to live with less
Darla Desautel at an arboretum in Arizona. She appreciates not only the cost savings of a shared rental but also the flexibility to move to other places when she wants.
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Saving money may be the top reason that more older people are house-sharing. But some see other benefits.
"Oh, I think it's wonderful. Maybe more of the way people used to live," said Darla Desautel, who's 74 and has rented with roommates for years, though she's currently house-sitting in Minnesota.
She loves the flexibility of not being tied down and being able to move where she wants, and she thinks not living alone is healthier. She got along especially well with one roommate who also was an older woman.
"We had a lot

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- Now "they're looking at prices and going, 'There's no way I could afford that.'" Baby boomers have been aging as housing costs across the U.S. have spiked .
- Meet the 'assumable mortgage' Older adults are also more likely to face major life events that can lead to financial strain.
- Darla Desautel hide caption toggle caption Darla Desautel Saving money may be the top reason that more older people are house-sharing.
- If she could afford it, Desautel said, she would rent solo, though "with a short-term lease." But that would eat up more than half her income.

### Expert Commentary
This article covers housing, older, roommate topics. Readability: Flesch-Kincaid grade 0.0. Word count: 1051.